The Pieces to Peace Spiritual Healing Programme
“I shouldn’t have been left with that narcissistic man as a child. It just wasn’t safe.”
“My mind felt totally shattered by the mind games.”
“No-one else could see it. I felt so alone.”
Only those who’ve felt the shattering effects of being in any kind of relationship with a narcissist can know how it feels. Your whole reality and perception are warped by the lies, manipulation and put-downs of the narcissist. You can lose your sense of self and question your own sanity. You think there’s something wrong with you and you’re blamed frequently for the problems they create.
But the people that narcissists target are the very people that can forge a more caring, nurturing, equal and peaceful society for everyone. Caring, sensitive empaths are the person of choice for a narcissist. Empaths know deep down that a better world is possible and that there are far too many toxic emotions keeping humanity trapped in unhealthy patterns. They sense the pain that narcissists are trying to mask and desperately wish to heal them.
On a soul level, empaths can gain much spiritual growth and understanding from narcissistic relationships. It expands your mind and consciousness beyond society’s norms so that you can think in unique and creative ways. It’s a harsh and deep lesson in keeping your heart open after experiencing so much pain and suffering, and of standing fully in your truth. Compassion and forgiveness are perhaps the toughest spiritual lessons of all, but they are deeply healing, powerful and transformative.
When you’ve come through your own darkness and brought to your own version of hell, you become the bridge between Heaven and Earth for others. You hold that light steady for others to find their way home to their true, divine essence. But you get to choose the people you can most help and who will contribute to your growing abundance and joy.
“Jacqui helped me uncover and correct unhelpful beliefs and as uncomfortable as it was at times, I have been left with a feeling of being complete and whole for the first time. Things have changed in my inner and outer world. My energies are no longer scattered and I have cleared so much project and people clutter!! The result is that I feel more focused, calmer and the daily low-lying sadness is no longer there.”
My Encounter with Narcissism
How do I know what you need? Because I’ve been there myself. Shortly before my father died of cancer, I had what Carl Jung would call a “creative illness”. I opened my heart to a narcissist and got sucked into mind games that shattered my mind and heart into pieces. I rode an intense rollercoaster of emotion that was fuelled by lack of sleep, an overactive imagination and believing that if I would just be the perfect person, I would get the loving relationship that I yearned for. And after I was on my knees, the mind games continued.
There seemed to be so much synchronicity and adventure that I was sure this man was heaven sent – surely he was “the one” I was supposed to be with… I followed the mind games hoping for another taste of the love that seemed promised.
But sobbing and slumped on the floor of my kitchen, I had an image that he’d taken my heart away, smashed it into pieces and handed it back broken and with pieces missing. And I had no idea what he’d done to it.
But all the while, I knew deep in my heart that even though I was hurting, someday I would turn my pain into a way to help others. I swore that I would find out what happened so that I could prevent others going through the same pain. I thought such experiences were rare. Sadly, it’s not true. Such experiences are far too common.
Discovering the Inner Child
After my breakdown, my first healer and teacher was Carl Jung whose books taught me about the unconscious mind and how our inside world and outside worlds are interconnected – especially through synchronicity and signs (the owl is my sign for Jung). Then “The Celestine Prophecy” expanded on the idea of synchronicity and introduced the idea of how patterns laid down in childhood affect the rest of our lives. Put the 2 together and that was the spark that ignited the passion for the healing work I do now.
Since that breakdown and those mind games in 2003, I’ve never stopped studying, learning, reading, energy clearing, healing and training and never will. I’ve released myself from the confusion, toxic shame, shattered mind and heartbreak and am truly grateful I had that experience because it brought me to this path and helped me to eventually find deep inner peace and more importantly, help others find the same.
Helping You Return to Your True Self
I’ve created this 8 stage process to help you heal from narcissistic relationships and get back to living the life your soul planned. Your Inner Child will feel safe, nurtured and comfortable with me and will help me lead you back to your truest divine self. I’ll help you gradually strengthen you inner world so that you can listen to the truth of your soul’s song and let it heal and guide you. That really is the key – after so many lies in the outer world, you need space for the strength of your truth in your inner world.
This spiritual healing programme will help you:
- free yourself from the guilt and shame the narcissist caused
- rebuild your confidence in yourself and in life
- strengthen your whole mind, body and spirit so that you can set stronger boundaries
- regain a sense of clarity, safety and peace
- feel more optimistic about the future
- know that your needs are important
“Jacqui’s sessions have helped me heal my inner child and finally find peace 💜 I was always scared of this point because I thought forgiving him would make me vulnerable again. In fact it’s the opposite. I feel stronger than ever.”
At the moment, I’m only recommending this programme to those with experience of energy healing. It’s very deep inner work and I just want to make sure that all the people called to this programme can handle the depth of it.
This is the outline for the programme, but it is a suggested guide and may need to change depending on your needs and previous healing work you’ve done. To get the best from the programme, ideally you need to have gone non-contact with the narcissist so that they can’t interfere with the process.
1. Safe Space
The first thing you need is to create a safe space inside your being. This is your centre, the quiet place where you can hear your soul song. I’ll guide you to create a safe, peaceful inner sanctuary in your heart that you can access whenever you need it. We’ll also begin the energy clearing and belief work that will strengthen your energy system,
2. Rebuilding Your Energy System and Boundaries
Feel more centred and calm as I help you build a stronger aura around yourself. This helps you relax and feel more peaceful, centred, safe and confident. (2 sessions). We’ll use ThetaHealing techniques to clear out the noise of the narcissist’s energy from your system.
3. Trust Your Body’s Messages
There’s a saying that “the body keeps the score” and being put into unsafe situations repeatedly takes its toll on your body. When the fight, flight or freeze mechanism gets activated again and again, it leave an impression on the physical body. Using guided visualisation, we’ll connect with your body and listen to its wisdom to release the wounds held there.
4. Connect with your Inner Child
Many of the patterns that keep us in narcissistic relationships far longer than we should stay were wired into us in childhood. So we need to bring the Inner Child forward to reverse those patterns. We’ll listen to him/her and meet her needs, so you can feel more of those higher child-like qualities like joy, curiosity, wonder and free-spirited play.
5. Balancing the Masculine and Feminine
Narcissistic relationships can get you totally out of balance. Using creative visualisation, we’ll get your masculine and feminine energies working in balance and harmony with each other inside you so that you can regain your balanced centre and avoid being pulled into another narcissist’s drama.
6. Releasing Resentment
Resentment that’s stuck in your mind, body and spirit can weigh you down and keep you stuck, feeling bitter and separated from your divinity. It also weighs down on your Inner Child, cutting off her sense of play. We’ll dive deep with ThetaHealing to release resentment at its core so that you can feel lighter and freer and let the past go.
7. Forgiveness – the spiritual shift
Forgiveness is the ultimate in true love and is the foundation to lasting inner peace. It’s not about denying the past or accepting that any abuse or mistreatment was OK, it’s about freeing yourself from what the toxic narcissist did to you and taking your power back. True forgiveness is a whole mind, body and spirit process, which is why you need an energy healer to help and guide the sessions. (2 sessions – one to forgive yourself, the other to forgive the narcissist)
8. Lessons in True Love
Your experience happened for a higher reason and when you connect with that reason, you have the power and motivation to go forward and help others. From this space you can dream big and make your visions a reality while experiencing more and more true love in your heart.
If you’re ready to commit 100% to this programme and do the deep dive necessary to heal, I would be delighted to assist you. This is a powerful programme that can get uncomfortable along the way, so you do need to be ready to go for it. And if you do, peace, understanding and compassion are waiting for you.
The programme consists of 9 sessions of 60 minutes plus an initial consultation. Eventually, this programme will cost £999 but while it’s in the beta testing phase, it is just £444 (£50 per deep healing session).
The sessions take place online via Skype, FaceTime or Zoom and I recommend that you take them once a week or once a fortnight. You’ll be able to email me between sessions for questions or queries that come up because life will be working with us on the programme to help you get to where your soul wants you to be.
Let’s start with a complimentary discovery session worth £66. Just email me at email@example.com or call 07794975304 to schedule yours.
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